“I need to think more about just the money and what's important to me and what are my values What do I stand for? What can I tolerate?”
Dale discusses the joys of working at a place that shares his values and how that is important when finding a place to make a career.
Chapter 3 | 5 min read | October 5, 2021
Around two weeks into this company where I was a full system admin—I go to this place, two weeks, and I'm walking around, I'm coming back from lunch. And I overhear the tech people, more of the internal tech, the people who give you your computers and stuff. I overheard them say, “Well, I don't really mind gay people, I just don't want to be around them. Huge red flag. And that immediately, kind of set me off. Where I would spend the I was only at this company for 11 months.
I started applying three months in, because I couldn't work at a place that didn't support me. And that was I didn't realize it was important to me. I was kind of there just like I'm going to kickstart my career, I'm going to do whatever I can to like, make my career what I want it to be and I don't care about anything else. And it really is kind of stuck with me. When they said that, and then I would notice other things through the you know, it's probably because, you know, my eyes were open
"I was like, okay, I can‘t, I can‘t any longer. First it was me, but now you‘re just gonna be completely culturally insensitive? Yep. Great. I gotta go."
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So then I was seeing more stuff, but like up, you know, I would see people purposely leave the bathroom, if I was in there, like they would come in and then come out. And I wasn't like presenting any type of queerness anyway, I wasn't wearing anything flamboyant or anything that would give it away. Nobody talked to me. So it wasn't like I ever got close to anyone or came out to spread the rumor around. Oh, we got a gay one. It was just terrible. And then around like Cinco de Mayo. They posted this really insensitive picture of people in HR. They were two white women wearing some sombreros and mustaches. And I was like, okay, I can't, I can't any longer. First, it was me, but now you're just gonna be completely culturally insensitive? Yep. Great. I gotta go.
That was then kind of what launched the next phase of my career. And I went to a consulting firm that was super inclusive with everyone. I was just basically implementing it for a company and then moving on implementing it. implementing it, you know, just as a consultant would do. I got burned out on that after a couple of years. Then that's when I started my journey with Indeed, and Indeed, is the most inclusive company I’ve ever worked for, they are fantastic.
It was a big sign for me that I need to think more about just the money and what's important to me and what are my values And what do I, what do I stand for? What can I tolerate? What can I not tolerate? And I really can't tolerate insensitivity. So what I'm the proudest of is that I jump-started my career, took it into my own hands, did it, then stumbled in the middle? Definitely. But took that as a learning opportunity and change it into what I have today, which I would say I've done very well for myself.
One of the reasons why I wanted to work on the benefit side of indeed, it that I'm literally giving people their leaves like I'm deciding all of these things. And Indeed is such a place that's like, no, give them more. I'll go to the senior leaders and request 10 days of bereavement leave for everyone in the company, and they're like, no, give them 15 give them 20. Wow, cool. I'll do it. I don't this is great. That's awesome. Yeah, so I definitely am the proudest of my career.
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